"Catch the Moon" Falling in Love.

Falling in love takes two people, two hearts, but it turns into one. Falling in love starts with a small feeling into bigger ones until you grow to love them more and more. You have to have respect, loyalty, honesty, caring, understanding, and everything a person should be treated no matter what situation you’re in. It is crazy, it has ups and downs and peoples knees gets weak and peoples heart grows stronger. People fall in love when they least expect it. When I, least expect it. People think that falling in love, means it has to take years to get that feeling; it doesn’t as long as your feelings are true towards each other no one can tell you, “You don’t know what love is”! For example, my house parents Bob and Debbie have only dated for three months and they got married. Knowing they can do it, makes anyone able to do it also. Debbie says, “Bob and I are totally opposite people, but we worked and worked on our relationship to make it this far. We have been married for 35 years and now going onto 36 years”. If loving that person is worth it, then make it last forever; though things gets hard, don't give up. There are so many emotions that runs through our minds. You ever hear that saying where they say, “You are a part of me and I am a part of you”? It’s true, once you get to that point where you feel like you know your boyfriend/girlfriend so well to the point where you guys are in love. It suddenly starts to feel like your just like them, you have a part of them and the other part of you is with them. You start to do anything to keep that person happy, and you wouldn't care what it takes to do so. Falling in love is a mystery, it happens differently to other people; some takes time, and some takes only a few months. It’s a mystery, you don’t know when it’s going to happen. Who cares if someone says, “You love him? What! you only been with him for 7 months”. It does not matter how long you known them, or how much they did this for you and that, nor how long you’ve been with them. It is the feeling that counts, deep down inside; not what people think that you should feel. Also, even if you’re young! So what?! I can say that when young people fall in love, it makes it harder because they try to grasp the love they had before and hold onto it knowing it ended so long ago, but it still does not mean it can’t happen. If you just be yourself, be true to yourself; you won’t have any reasons not to find love. Like they say, “Patient is a virtue”. Love can’t be rushed, because you don’t have a sexual life with your partner does not mean you guys aren’t in love. For example, when I fell in love for the first time, I was honestly to God; scared! I questioned myself everyday if it was really love? After everything I went through with him made me realize many things, and even though we fell out of love, I still care and I still have love for him. If you care for a person that much, it’s hard to let go and forget. Does not mean you have to erase them from your memories, “People hold onto the memories like it’s the most important thing in their life, because they are the ones that does not change when the people in it does”. You can’t force yourself to move on, you just have to go with the flow. While you do that learn from it, don’t just throw it away like it doesn’t mean anything to you. When falling in love, people are motivated by moving on, caring more, loving more, and being a better person themselves. They start to care what they would treat their next love one who comes in, and cherish it. A love one once told me that if you can’t make things right like how you want it, you keep trying; and if you know you’re hurting the person so much but you love them and you want them to be happy, you should let them go. He told me that he knew he was hurting me and he keeps doing it but he tried and tried but somehow it just never worked out. The only way is to let go, cherish, remember; only if they really and truly meant something.